NO KILL I ([info]glockgal) wrote,
THE WACKY COUSIN
[info]cidercupcakes discusses an issue: 'it is not the duty of marginalized people to educate privileged people, or to fit some gold standard of "niceness" in calling them out on their privilege'

Actually, while I fully 100% support what Cider is referring to (ie the erasure of a character's canon Jewishness by replacing it with Catholicism), her post translates to another important discussion of privilege that's recently surfaced on my flist.

I am tired of people complaining that 'privilege' is a word that makes them sick or sad or angry or annoyed or bored or omg too PC!!! or hypocritical or one of a dozen dismissal tactics that concurrently dismisses real, actual people. Hey - if you really do prefer to consciously dismiss other humans, then I'm have no interest in knowing you.

I'm unlocking a previous post for the sake of this one. Privilege, and its Wacky Cousin....Intersectionality!.
- most people who rail against the concept of privilege refuse to learn the concept of intersectionality. So essentially, they're being self-righteous about half an idea. Why? Why would they do this? Possibly because it's easier to do so, since then the becomes All About Them and How Hurt They Are by people talking about privilege? It's preferable to remain ignorant and not learn, because it's just too hard to analyse yourself? I don't know.

(sadly, I'm fairly sure people who need to learn and educate themselves won't be reading any of these posts. As I said - it's easier to remain hostage to one's own unchecked privilege.)

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THE LAST AIRBENDER

Why boycott The Last Airbender? From [info]ssj10, her reasons: These Are My Colours*


(*While racebending.com does not encourage illegal downloading, I personally feel that's your choice.)

A friend recently mentioned that they wanted to see The Last Airbender on the big screen, because its trailers looked cool and it occured to me that they're probably not the only one. Here is my suggestion.

Wanna see The Last Airbender on the big screen?

Okay. Then how about this --

1) Try not to go on opening weekend.
2) Buy a movie ticket for another movie (Karate Kid? Toy Story 3?). You are sill paying for a movie, so you are being honest to the theatre, and to yourself.
3) Encourage your friends to do the same
4) Sate your curiousity, watch TLA

That's my suggestion.
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[info]bookshop

June 21 2010, 16:56:20 UTC 1 year ago


2) Buy a movie ticket for another movie (Karate Kid? Toy Story 3?).
Karate Kid! CHINA. CROSS-CULTURAL NARRATIVE. AND 3-DIMENSIONAL CHINESE PEOPLE. okay, in some cases narrowly avoiding exaggerated stereotypes of Chinese people, and also I feel like the Smiths just said TOUCHING BLACK PEOPLE'S HAIR IS CUTE, but i still feel like it gets a points for trying, especially in comparison to TLA :( :( :(

(a free movie pass, which went to buy a ticket for Sherlock Holmes, is how I saw the *other* Avatar in theatres. Ugh.)

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:36:32 UTC 1 year ago

In comparison to TLA is totally my (very bitter and cynical) motto these days. Gyah, I just want that stupid movie to premiere and then go away forever so we can refocus racebending into a media awareness comm.

[info]chiromancy

June 21 2010, 16:58:52 UTC 1 year ago

That post you linked is awesome, and I plan on showing it to anybody who seems confused by my decision to boycott. And, hoo baby, I will be boycotting. Have said so since day one of this ugly mess.

There is a slight chance that my dude (whose total horror at the casting I may have mentioned to you) will go see it, because he is a total and abject special FX geek, but he's already said that IF he does, he'll be using the pay-for-a-different-ticket-and-sneak-in method, and probably walking out halfway through. I won't be going at all, but I understand this perspective.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:37:28 UTC 1 year ago

Yup yup! I'm so sick of it at this moment that all I want is for it to be over!

[info]furiosity

June 21 2010, 17:02:43 UTC 1 year ago

You know, I realised over the past few days why the whole "you are hostile and/or angry and therefore your opinion doesn't matter" is so severely amusing to me (in that "funny but sad" kind of way), because I can point to a dozen fannish rants I've posted over the years where I was indeed very angry and even hostile about all manner of things -- like who tops in a slash pairing or how to spell correctly -- in other words, things that have zero relevance to any truly important matters. The response was usually an overwhelming "word". Kinney knows how many disagreed but said nothing because of fandom's ingrained culture of "say nothing if you have nothing nice to say", but my point is that how come I get to post angry screeds like, "Draco Malfoy's fanfic personality, ur doin it rong!" and have people go "yeah, you're right" and "I love your rants :D :D!" but the minute any unprivileged person reacts to privilege with any amount of anger, they are suddenly "too emotional" and their arguments are thus insta-invalidated just because they're not exhibiting enough cool detachment? What the fuck, fandom!

[info]_inbetween_

June 21 2010, 19:47:08 UTC 1 year ago

You answered your own (rhetorical) question there; only the priviliged are allowed and able to rant. On anything really - lately the small issues of fandom disagreement have been forgotten, but any major attack on firm fandom favourites by someone who's not securely established get equally torn apart or brushed aside.

[info]furiosity

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[info]glockgal

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[info]syonanto

June 21 2010, 18:03:55 UTC 1 year ago

Oh good God... I read the first comment on the These Are My Colours entry and died.

Anywho, thanks for the list of suggestions. Honestly, #2 is by far the most appealing to me, but I doubt I'll end up doing any of the four. I vowed to boycott the movie and it wouldn't feel right to do so and still end up watching it on the big screen.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:43:46 UTC 1 year ago

Yeah - I feel if I do end up seeing it (for free, of course) it'll be in the privacy of my own home where I can loudly rant and rage to my heart's content. :D

[info]syonanto

1 year ago

[info]glockgal

1 year ago

[info]bana05

June 21 2010, 18:05:17 UTC 1 year ago

I just spent the last few weeks watching Avatar: The Last Airbender because I needed to see it. I didn't watch it back when it was on its first-run, and I have to say had it not been for this controversy, I doubt I would've in general. But I was supporting the protest on the principle of the matter. I didn't need to see the series to know that was foul how they did the casting. I didn't need to be of the Asian diaspora for it to matter to me. But then I started watching the series and I OMG FLOVE IT SO MUCH! and these people in the live action look absolutely nothing like the characters I fell in love with. And watching the World Cup sets my teeth on edge because there's a promo for the film just about every break. I've been ranting to [info]skywardprodigal about how disrespectful, degrading, debilitating, and frankly dumbass this entire thing has been and completely missing the point of Avatar's original creators for the bottom line. How they're being offensive to the people who loved the show--loved a show full of nonwhite characters and how they didn't trust these same people to love a live-action movie with nonwhite characters. Not to make a long rant in your comments, but posts like these matter. It does. We haven't reached the "it's just a movie" argument. This series was the perfect example of how nonPoC can write CoC as fully realized and pay homage to a culture that isn't yours. I dread the fic that will come out after this movie.

But thank you for your LJ and racebending and the like to get the word out. Perfectly explains why it does matter, and why it SHOULD matter irrespective of color.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:46:24 UTC 1 year ago

Thanks so much for your comment. It lightens my step every time I hear someone else mention that they enjoyed the show so much, only to see - clearly - the disappointment that is the movie. Just awful and ultimately so disappointing. It really would have been amazing to see it live-action, and I hate that institutionalized racism has taken this chance away from so many fans. Errrg.

[info]melisus

June 21 2010, 19:02:21 UTC 1 year ago

"Intersectionality" is my FAVOURITE word/term!

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:48:10 UTC 1 year ago

I KNOW I LOVE IT SO MUCH. People rail constantly against privilege - ie, by refusing to acknowledge their own privilege - without seeing (or caring?) that it isn't just one, standalone thing.

[info]melisus

1 year ago

[info]glockgal

1 year ago

[info]mijan

June 21 2010, 19:22:40 UTC 1 year ago

RE: The Last Airbender
That's a very clever idea... but still slightly dishonest. At the same time, you're not technically cheating the theatre out of money. I don't know. I have no interest in seeing the movie because it's not a canon I ever followed, but I can understand those who want to see it. Either way, it still burns me that they whitewashed the cast of the movie like that. I mean, seriously, it's just *headdesk*-worthy. But if I wanted to see the movie because I followed the animated show... I don't know what I'd do. That's a really tough question.


RE: Privilege:
A funny thing is when people assume you to be in the "privileged" role in a debate until told otherwise.

I found it highly amusing the other day when I was told to check my cis-gendered privilege. I have other types of privilege that I'm becoming aware of, and I'm trying to learn more about them so that I'll have a better understanding of how those types of privilege impact those around me and society at large, and how to be a better person with that understanding... but cisgendered privilege is not on my list.

One of my friends told me this story yesterday: she was at the Egyptian exhibit at the local museum, and was looking at a statue of the God Thoth. Someone started speaking to her, and my friend commented that she thought the statue was beautiful. The person apparently took that comment to mean that she was looking at the statue as a mere piece of art and not a religious item, and she snapped at her about her "Christo-centric privilege." My friend is Pagan and one of her patron Gods is Thoth. *headdesk*


Also... speaking of religious privilege and assumptions... I had an odd encounter with one of the people running a panel at Infinitus. Apparently, they're presenting on various religious/secular interpretations of Deathly Hallows:
http://www.infinitus2010.org/fp/christianbook.html
However, they're only presenting Jewish, Muslim, and Christian viewpoints, in addition to "secular." That doesn't sound like religious diversity to me, seeing as they're all monotheistic religions with the same primary deity and the same geographic origin. Still, I guess it's better than many people would consider.

[info]glockgal

June 23 2010, 18:05:33 UTC 1 year ago

You and I are at a crossroads right now. When it comes to topics and ideas that are becoming increasingly important to me, I kept believing we're progressing along the same path of learning, only to realize now that we're not. I'm disappointed in myself, that I've been holding on to that hope for this long.

I'm going to defriend you now and I ask one favour: please don't contact me via LJ, PM or email. I need time to heal, after learning an unhappy lesson: fandom is not my go-to place for trust or understanding.

Thanks.





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[info]glockgal

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[info]_inbetween_

June 21 2010, 19:42:41 UTC 1 year ago

I really like those sensible suggestions; they take human nature into consideration and that the issue is to get the message and the hurt to the makers, so these are so much better than categorically forbidding the looking-at-those-images suggestions.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:51:06 UTC 1 year ago

Well ultimately racebending.com stands by the 'please boycott' and a lot of people are not being forced to make that choice. But the world isn't one extreme or the other.

I agree with [info]ssj10 that if someone pays for that movie and is familiar with the whitewashing, they are consciously making a decision to see an institutionalized racist movie.

[info]geewhiz

June 21 2010, 19:52:25 UTC 1 year ago

I am tired of people complaining that 'privilege' is a word that makes them sick or sad or angry or annoyed or bored or omg too PC!!! or hypocritical or one of a dozen dismissal tactics that concurrently dismisses real, actual people. Hey - if you really do prefer to consciously dismiss other humans, then I'm have no interest in knowing you.

ITA. CBC aired a show this afternoon that had a former CBC employee talking about IT HURT HER when her art profs crit'd her work for being exploitative and that her position of privileged and power in relation to the content was problematic, and she didn't even say anything about FUCKING THINKING or even at the least TRYING TO UNDERSTAND what they were saying, NO NO NO IT WAS ALL ABOUT HER HURT AND PAIN AND THE MEAN ART WORLD DOESN'T UNDERSTAND HER DESIRES and well if she's white and female and middle/upper class then why bother doing anything at all lockdown of discussion & goodbye cruel world where people want to be treated like people and that's getting the way of my ~project~. I haven't finished it yet, but am writing what is essentially a fuck you letter regarding that broadcast b/c I can't believe the level of selfish, entitled bullshit involved not only in the interview, but in the decision to air once, and then twice!

Wanna see The Last Airbender on the big screen?

NO.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:52:37 UTC 1 year ago

OMGGGG was the show intending the viewer to side with the CBC employee?? *facepalm*


[info]geewhiz

1 year ago

[info]sharklabyrinth

June 21 2010, 20:04:00 UTC 1 year ago

it's easier to remain hostage to one's own unchecked privilege.

Brilliantly stated.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:53:55 UTC 1 year ago

It's Stockholm syndrome taken to a whole new level. A LEVEL OF FAIL.

[info]cathybites

June 21 2010, 20:05:49 UTC 1 year ago

I'm fairly sure people who need to learn and educate themselves won't be reading any of these posts

or they'll read them and think it doesn't apply to them.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:54:35 UTC 1 year ago

Ahhhh-ha. <.

[info]eska_rina

June 21 2010, 21:23:31 UTC 1 year ago

I need a "like" button on LJ to all those posts, where I agree, but got nothing to add.

Thanks for the link to Cider's post.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 13:55:14 UTC 1 year ago

LOL seriously, LJ needs to consider having an option like 'I like this' to posts!

[info]wroth

June 21 2010, 22:15:52 UTC 1 year ago

I've given up on talking to people about privilege and whatnot because they just don't get how it works in their favor and why and slkdfjslkdfll They're just so blinded by it, thinking that everyone else has it easier than they do. LJKDFSKLDFJLSKDFJ SKLDF CAN'T TAKE IT. WILL EXPLODE.

[info]wroth

June 21 2010, 22:29:58 UTC 1 year ago

UGH NO EDITING FEATURE AVAILABLE BECAUSE LOL AT MY COMMENT ABOVE. But it's like, I don't have anyone around me who would like to discuss social issues that involve privilege in someway, no matter where that privilege may fall. All I get are the stupid, "Why do you care so much?" bull shit responses and my only response to that is that I don't know why I do, I just do! I get passionate about somethings, and this is what I understand and can talk about without feeling like a dunce. And it's not like I'm attacking people, I just like the discussion about it, but it seems like no one cares to understand anything at all that goes on in society. And those who do like discussing this kind of make me feel bad in the end too so lol I'm between a rock and a stupid place :|||| so ignore me if you want :S

[info]glockgal

1 year ago

[info]teenage_hustler

June 21 2010, 22:58:58 UTC 1 year ago

I realise I'm being painfully slow here, but I feel the need for clarification.
I've not actually heard of Intersectionality before. From what I can gather in my tired state, it's the idea that most people are both privileged and unprivileged on different levels because of the many kinds of privilege out there, and it all interlinks?
So in that sense, a type of privilege (I'll use white privilege as an example) refers to how a person of that privilege will think of their experiences as being normal rather than experiences bestowed on them by their having an advantage, and intersectionality says that while that may be so, their lack of privilege in other areas interweaves with that and creates different levels of privilege/non-privilege in each person (so a person with white privilege may also be gay and disabled, and those non-privileges weave together).
i'm sensing more and more that this is something one needs to seriously study before even getting the foggiest idea about it.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 14:16:11 UTC 1 year ago

Right on all counts. I think you and I talked about this briefly and I think it's mentioned in the link on privilege, but the point is:

Take, for example, the well-known knowledge that there is a lot of sexism in the world, and oftentimes within a woman's own circle of family/friends/acquaintances. She is aware of it and considers herself a feminist and is very invested in helping her fellow woman.

However, when it comes to disabled issues, she might make a lot of able-privileged comments (ie saying things like 'retarded' when she's joking with people). When she's called on her able-ist privilege, she gets indignant because god! - she struggles for her rights as a woman every day and it's not easy and she's done this her whole life!!! And therefore it's not fair that these anti-ableist people are trying to make her fell guilty about the word 'retarded'. And she has disabled friends who've never said anything about her using that word, so stop over-reacting and stop being angry at her. And a year ago, this one sexist disabled fellow said something horribly sexist about women - but what, somehow THAT'S okay?? etc, etc, etc

This is where intersectionality comes in: is fosters empathy. If you are marginalized in one way - you can still have privilege in other ways. And (tying into my story) instead of trying to bring up how marginalized she is so she doesn't feel anyone has the right to point out any sort of privilege she might have - why not think about how much she'd be upset/angry/frustrated if someone brought up those same strawman arguments about feminism. Why not unpack her own able-bodied privilege so that she can acknowledge and apologize for her mistake, just as she'd want someone to apologize for a display of male privilege, if she called them out.



[info]glockgal

1 year ago

[info]amanuensis1

June 22 2010, 00:01:56 UTC 1 year ago

I just want to say thank you for your utterly polite take on "suggestions for people who decide not to boycott the film after all." Yes, I'm hoping enough people are upset by the racefail to decide not to go, but your suggestions--at least don't go on opening weekend, or buy tickets for other films at the same time, or talk to your friends, or, well, go if you're determined to after all--are just so rationally accepting that everyone may not obey the central plea, and that you know you may not be able to change that, and by extension says that you understand that this does not make those people evil because they did choose to see it. You are such a force for sanity. &hearts

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 14:19:29 UTC 1 year ago

<3 <3 <3 I'm glad I brought it up, because I haaaaate having people do things - anything - out of obligation or guilt. That just builds resentment. I'd rather if people consciously chose, but not everyone's gonna get the whole gist of our message, or they reallyreally wanna see cool SFX or whatever. I hope the alternatives will provide an option without creating guilty resentment towards racebending.com!

[info]pinkfinity

June 22 2010, 01:10:21 UTC 1 year ago Edited:  June 22 2010, 01:14:27 UTC

So my eldest and I saw a preview for TLA when we saw Shrek, and he loved the series and I know he wanted to see it but when I explained the casting situation while we watched the preview, and he could see that the actor playing Aang wasn't Asian, he said he wouldn't see it in a theater or get it on iTunes or buy it on DVD. We talked about why watching it on cable is different because we aren't a Nielsen family and it provided a great opportunity for discussions of race, casting, marketing, the film industry and more.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 14:20:15 UTC 1 year ago

I <3 you so so so very much. I love hearing stories like this, I really truly do!

[info]tallycola

June 22 2010, 02:09:28 UTC 1 year ago

Just to point out that movie theatres make very very little money from ticket sales. The vast majority of their income comes from selling concession, hence the incredible mark up on food, and the way they will push more and more treats on busy showings - sending people in with ice cream, etc.

A movie theatre only keeps, I want to say maybe 20 or 10 percent of the ticket sale. They *might* keep more of the extra mark up on a 3D ticket because 3D projection machines are fucking expensive as hell and it's a real financial burden (but also investment) for a theatre to buy one, but I'm not sure on that. In any case, it's a very small amount, which is one of the reasons movie theatres generally let their employees see as many free movies as they want and it's very easy to let friends in for free, unlike other places like retail or restaurants where discounts are very strictly monitored. (And discounts on concessions would likely be strictly monitored.)

Any way, while it would be the theatre's responsibility to make sure people don't sneak into movies, it definitely doesn't make a difference to the theatre's income itself if you go to a different movie, as long as you pay for a ticket.

Also, if a film does badly at a theatre, they'll get rid of it quicker since they need to be bringing in people to buy all the food! So definitely waiting until a second or third week will help, because reducing the screens will translate as a failure.

[info]tallycola

June 22 2010, 02:12:36 UTC 1 year ago

ALSO depending on how popular the movie actually is, and where the viewer is seeing it, buying a different ticket on opening weekend might not be possible because of assigned seating or checking tickets at the actual auditorium door instead of the hallway. So yeah, I'd definitely recommend waiting a week or two.

Or. Just not going! I hate that "this looks like garbage but I'll see it anyway, I like to NOT THINK at the movies!" mentality D:

[info]glockgal

1 year ago

[info]elaby

June 22 2010, 02:35:31 UTC 1 year ago

sadly, I'm fairly sure people who need to learn and educate themselves won't be reading any of these posts.

I always appreciate reading your posts on this subject. I think I'll always be learning, and I can't imagine ever not wanting and needing the opportunity to educate myself further about my own white/able-bodied/cisgender/educated etc. privilege and how to be supportive and empathetic toward those who are underprivileged in those areas. So, thank you :)

I'm planning to boycott TLA, but I think those are good ideas to satisfy curiosity without supporting the film. I think just about everybody at my office has gotten into an unwitting conversation with me about TLA's racefail when they ask me "Oh, hey, you like fantasy and animation! Are you going to see that new movie?" Most of them have been appalled to hear what's gone on, so hopefully that's done some good.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 19:13:17 UTC 1 year ago

<3 It's a huge learning process for me as well, because I've gotten that uncomfortable joy of learning about my own marginalization while also concurrently realizing I should learn about my own prejudices and privileges. I can't ascribe to one set of standards for others while not being willing to apply it to myself, y'know? Even if the truth ain't pretty! :D

Most of them have been appalled to hear what's gone on, so hopefully that's done some good.

*CLAP CLAP CLAP* I love hearing stories like this. Thanks for sharing!

[info]the_rusty_bird

June 22 2010, 06:14:21 UTC 1 year ago

Hey I got linked here by jbmcdragon and read through the linked articles and just wanted to say thanks, because it's a really thorough explanation of a topic I've always been aware of but less involved in, especially that post on intersectionality.

I'm not into the fandom in question, but I'll make sure I avoid that movie if it comes up as an option if I go to the cinema with friends.

Aside from that I thought I'd add my two cents? You can ignore if you want, but before you start skimming I really wanted to let you know that I respect standing up for stuff like this, especially when it reveals stuff about people you didn't want to know about and effects your dealings with them.

Mostly I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate that explanation of intersectionality and the links to the doll test. I'm Australian, so racism tends to crop up in different manifestations than what that group looks into, but the dad with the sweet little 9 year old that kept going on about how it was what was on the inside that matters is totally an inspiration. It's also taught me a lesson in the importance of acknowledging race - within reason - rather than feeling like I'm morally obliged to pretend like it has no effect on anyone whatsoever.

I'm white and come from a pretty privileged socioeconomic sphere, so I've always felt like I had no right to become involved in these sorts of debates because I was scared it would come across as 'me - privileged and well educated - speaking up for the underprivileged masses that obviously couldn't defend themselves with the same authority' or whatever. And I've grown up with heaps of friends that have had to deal with this sort of thing and worse, and that note about my inherent guilt is actually supremely helpful, so thanks. Anyway, the point of this is that I appreciate having this chance to learn more about the issue and actually have the correct terms and evidence for stuff I've always been invested in but never been brave enough to become actively involved with.

[info]glockgal

June 22 2010, 19:18:25 UTC 1 year ago

Thanks for pointing this out, because I agree that there is definitely a delicate balance between being an ally of marginalized people - which, for a large part, means sitting down, shutting up and listening. I don't want to make classist or anti-homophobia (or etc) issues about me - not my guilt (for not understanding what it's like to grow up poor or be a lesbian or etc) or my 'learning experience' or my fear of my own ignorance - it has nothing to do with me. And the best thing to do is to pay attention, call people out on their privilege and give safe space/support so marginalized people will not be forced into silence.

[info]aka_ladydonna

July 15 2010, 20:47:08 UTC 1 year ago

To speak up or not speak up?

Coming late to the discussion, again. But this post has prompted me to bring up something that's troubled me over the years.
I'm a middle-aged middle-class suburban white-bread housewife. Suppose I am in a public place where I overhear someone make a racist comment in front of a member of the race in question. I'd like to speak up and call out the person who made the comment. OK. But should I, when there's already someone else with more "right" (if that's even the correct way to look at it) to speak up? I mean, I don't want to come off as the Brave White Defender of Poor Minority People Who Can't Speak for Themselves. But I'm also afraid of seeming to condone the racist jerk's comment by my silence.
By the way, in my example, I'm assuming that I don't personally know either of the people in question.
I'd really appreciate hearing everyone's thoughts on this subject.
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